We’re fat, sassy, sexy and proud to show it on our new reality TV show! It’s OUR time to share with the world that we love our bodacious bodies and that, yes, fat people are sexy too! This hit show is for us – plus-size goddesses that flaunt their fabulous curves! Join us in creating this show for us, by us, about us and edited by us!
But we’re going to need your help! We’re going to need your social currency and while we would love your donation, more importantly – would you share this please. We’re going to need all of us to make this happen.
Wouldn’t you love to see a show FOR fat, thick, curvy people ABOUT us, created by us and most importantly edited by us! 70% of Americans are plus size, but about 99% percent of the people you see in the movies and on t.v. are NOT.
I get this question all of the time on my Curvy Girl Lingerie Facebook Page and Blog. Women ask me constantly how can they possibly date, since they are SOOOOOO fat. Or, maybe they are in a relationship and they want to know how can the women on my page or I have sex WITH THE LIGHTS ON???? (Usually followed by about 26 questions marks.) Because, you know, they are SOOOOOOOOO fat and who wants to see all of that? (If I had a dollar for every time a male customer asks me how he can convince his plus size wife or girlfriend to stop covering up and stop hiding in the dark, I would be retired by now!)
You know who wants to see ALL OF THAT? Your lover, that’s who! Seriously, ladies. No amount of black clothes and lingerie that “hides” or “camouflages” your fat areas is going to make your lover think you are THIN. We can all still see how much space you take up……… when you are like me and you are like a size 24… there is no hiding or camouflaging that. FOR REAL. Own it, sister.
Is someone there ready to get nekkid with you? They have a pretty good idea of what you look like, I promise you. GO FOR IT. They must be pretty into you to say go on like 20 dates with you or stay married to you for 25 years….. do not deny them the pleasure of seeing you and your entire body and beauty. They could be with any one of the other 5 billion people on the planet and they are there with you! What else do you need to know?
As far as dating as a fat babe goes, I know it’s very daunting and scary because the world and the check-out aisle at the grocery store would have you convinced that you have to have zero body fat and 6, 8 or 12 pack abs to be thought of as sexy and beautiful. (Or, as some people put it, to be “fuckable.” Whatever. Someone’s definition of what is fuckable or not does not interest me. I know who I am and I know my worth.)
But, I am here to tell you something different. I own a plus size lingerie store and I have been in the business of selling romance toys for over 13 years. I feel like I have some good data to base this one. I hear from men and women all of the time and they ask me how can they get their female lover to STOP trying to hide in a robe or under the blankets. They ask me how can they convince their partner to have sex with the lights on or how can they get them to relax and have fun in their bedroom like they do when they are on vacation. DAILY I get these questions in person or online.
People are attracted to people – not bodies. Sure, there is that small percentage of men and women who will only date a person with zero body fat. But that’s ok. Let them Continue reading →
Talk about FAN GIRL! My Curvy Girls and I were so tickled that Marie Denee – THE CURVY FASHIONISTA – could come all the way to San Jose from Georgia to help us create a couple of segments for our new T.V. show we’re calling “Plus Life TV.”
A few months ago I invited Marie to come to San Jose and I knew she had a super busy August because she had her The Curvy Fashionista Style Expo on August 8th, but we made it work right after her expo! She wrote about her visit her to San Jose and Curvy Girl Lingerie here on her TCF blog. And I “stole” these pictures of her trip to San Jose from her Facebook page. (Thanks, Marie!)
Marie, The Curvy Fashionista in front of Curvy Girl wearing a MonifC jumper.
Marie was such a trooper and boy did we cover a lot of ground while she was in town. We started out on Sunday up at Jill Alexander Design’s boutique in Scott’s Valley. Three of my favorite customers, Tigress, Kim and Spring, joined us at Jill’s. Marie styled them using Jill’s gorgeous designs and they looked amazing. Jill has adorable dresses for wearing out, career wear that is contemporary, yet sassy. And, Jill even has some casual wear that is super comfy and appropriate for all kinds of fun… festivals, shopping, drinks with your friends. I bought a gorgeous purple skirt, purple cowl neck top and a fab silver bag! Marie helped me to pick out a gorgeous jumper for my head shots I was taking the next day for our T.V. show! Jill really rolled out the red carpet for us and she basically let our film crew take over her entire shop. She is so generous and so fun to work with. I just adore her so much and she made us all feel like a million dollars.
Then, we drove back down into San Jose from Scott’s Valley to my boutique, Curvy Girl Lingerie, and we styled three of my favorite customers for a lingerie boudoir photo shoot Continue reading →
Now some of you lovely people prefer to wax, I can totally get down with that! However, rather you are shaving your love parts, your arm pits, your legs, your face, this is magic! I used it recently while in the shower. I wanted to test it out. I mean it says “Rash Free” but really most things say that and they aren’t. So I put it to the test. I used a not so awesome store brand disposable razor…DEADLY COMBO I know! I let my leg hair grow out for a few days, it wasn’t a winter pelt but it was too long to be out in public with. (Unless that is what you’re into. Then by all means let them leg hairs fly freely in the wind) The cream does not come out like regular store brand shave gel. There was no fun foam to play with, it is a shave cream on a mission. I proceeded to shave my leg. With each stroke of the razor all I could think was “Great, razor burn”. After the my shower I put lotion on as normal. Much to my surprise, NO RAZOR BURN! I didn’t believe it! Seriously. So I let my arm pits grow out for a few days. I tried the cream again! No weird arm pit rash, no burn! Even with a lame razor my legs and pits felt smooth.
We sell one size online and a few different sizes in store. Its totally worth it. Even if its just for legs or pits. I highly HIGHLY recommend it.