4 Fab Sex Toys for Curvy Women
These products would work for most any woman, but I love to share which of them work well for a woman of size; we sometimes have larger lower tummy, larger outer lips / labia and sometimes larger breasts to work around. (I said sometimes. I do realize that fat bodies come in all shapes and sizes. I am writing this to any woman, no matter your size, that has difficulty reaching your vulva, vagina or clitoris – for whatever that reason might be.)Eva looks like a little lady bug or critter. (On a scale of 1 to 5, I would give the Eva a 4.5!)
The Eva stays in place with the help of two flexible wings which tuck under the labia, Eva is designed to stay out of the way in the moment, giving you a boost of stimulation while leaving your hands free to move around and focus on intimacy.
I personally find that it will stay in place during intercourse and will stay positioned over my clitoris. My only complaint is that there is no remote control to adjust the speed. So, typically I just turn it to speed 3 and go for it. It is way too difficult to get all up in there to adjust the speed up or down. (For women of size who have larger outer lips, this toy stays in place very nicely.
This toy is NO JOKE. Your Mom probably owns or owned one at some point as it has been around forever. It looks like a back massager and it does feel really great on your neck and back. But, it also feels dreamy on your clitoris. It is a bit bulky for partner play if you at having p in the v sex with a guy (or a strap on) … but where there is a will, there is a way!
Plugs into the wall, so as long as you pay your electric bill, this vibe will keep going and going and going and going. (Only two speeds. Low and “vibrate your clit off” speed… also know as speed high.) Please please please do give yourself some foreplay with this vibe. Use it on your thighs and your vulva before you go right for it. Blood flow to that area is a good thing. And, some people do put a sheet or a towel between their body and the head of the wand to slow down the vibration a bit.
This product is great for women of size because it adds about 8 to 10″ inches to your reach. Many of my customers have a larger lower tummy. Some of shorter arms. Some have large breasts. When you have shorter arms, larger breasts and larger lower tummy, reaching the clitoris can be difficult. This wand can reach all kind of places. (There is also a rechargeable Magic Wand, now, too.) Also dreamy!
Silver Bullet This simple vibe is powerful and mighty. And, we sell 2 bullets for $14 so they at super duper affordable. Not the best vibe ever created, but it will get the job done. This vibe is great for masturbation and great for partner play. You or your lover and put it on your clitoris for oral sex, making out, intercourse, anal sex, etc etc etc. (Buy Bullet)
There are hundreds and hundreds of bullets out there. We typically the sell the one from Cal Exotics. It is so affordable, you can generally afford to have them sprinkled around your house and car. It is great for travel because it is small and discreet. I feel like this is such a great vibe for newbies, but listen, I own every sex toy know to womankind. I always know my bullet is my trusty companion and can always get the job done when I just need to knock one out for some stress relief. I also enjoy it on my clitoris for doggy style and all sort of fun in my bedroom. And, when one gets ruined, I do not stress because it was $14!
Womanizer Pro 40 Be still my heart! I have been in the business of educating and entertaining people about sex toys since 2003. This one has rocked my world! It is so different from the bullets, rabbits, dolphins, and those vibes we all know. It has a ridiculous name (made in Germany) plus it looks like an ear thermometer. But, it is so much more!
I love it alone. I love it together with my partner. I love it alone. (Seriously. Like I love it a lot alone …. and together!)
This one (for me) latches on my clitoris and it creates light suction and vibration at the same time. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
I wrote about the Womanizer in another review, here, too. I have now tried two of the three Womanizers. I have tried and love the Womanizer 500 and this Womanizer P40. New on the scene (as in April 19th we all got our firsts) is the Womanizer Plus. I am very excited to try it as it is the longer version of the P40. For women of size, like myself, I always appreciate more reach with my sex toys. Plus, it is going to be so much to use with my lover. I am excited to try it out alone and together. (Like I said. It is brand new!)
I understand they call this vibe “touch less.” I do know that some women like a feather light touch on their clitoris. I, apparently, enjoy the “latch on and vibe me” method. But, I think it is fabulous that it can work for women who are super duper sensitive and who enjoy that whisper soft air / suction sensation.
And, this Womanizer is 8.25″ long so again – lots of reach. The P40 is 6.25″ long. The Womanizer Plus is about 2 inches longer. Much easier to access the clitoris with all of that length to it. (The Womanizer also has a 2 year warranty and is water proof.)
If you have ever have any questions about sex toys and which might work best for you, please always feel free to call me or email me and we will find the right toy for you. I am not a sexologist or a sex therapist. But, I am a fat woman who loves sex toys and I never want you to waste money on a vibrator that night not work for you.
I wrote this blog about the EVA and the Sex Sling
I wrote this one about 8 Sex Toys that Work for Curvy Girls
Sex Positions for Curvy Girls blog here
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