This article from VICE is everything!!
How To Have Sex With a Fat Girl LINK to VICE article here.
From the article:
The first few times I fucked as a fat girl, I exclusively wore my boyfriend’s Superman hoodie to hide my body. I was 16, a size 14 and it was 2009 – long beforebody positivityhit the mainstream or my Tumblr feed. Now, as a 26-year-old woman wearing a size 20, the shagging game has changed year on year as my body has gotten bigger and the dating pool has gotten smaller. With plus size partners we can press our bellies together, grab each others bodies and enjoy the thickness of our flesh in privacy (or with other partners, if they’re game forgroup sex). But fucking a fat girl when you don’t know her, what she likes, or what she dislikes, is apparently a minefield for most people with slimmer frames.
Link to the entire article on VICE HERE
Gina Tonic wrote this article – so beautifully, I might add. Their Fat Girl illustration is by Kim Cowie.
Fat dating is so fraught with stress and tension.
When you dated, did you include lots of full body pics just so you would not get blindsided by an awful date who says something horrible about your body? That is a tactic I used when I was dating. I would just rather get it all ut up front, ya know? No surprises, please.
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The key to HOT sex is being able to let go and get out of your head; easier said than done some days, I know.