Hello from Oklahoma!
My name is (Ms. Oklahoma) , I’m 21 years old, I have a baby boy and oh yeah, I’m a plus sized lady. Haha
After having my son I was of course left with more weight than I had before (I was already a bit fluffier) my pregnancy… Also, I was dealing with the fact that my son’s father and I were no longer together and he had left me for someone much smaller than me… and what I THOUGHT was much more attractive than I was.
That was about a year ago..
This past year has been so hard, for so many reasons.
Hormones, heartache, and a lack of self confidence left me hurt, angry with myself, and hating my body.
I was always a bigger girl growing up, I endured some teasing in school but for the most part I had a pretty healthy self image, I used to be motivated (not for my appearance, but because I wanted to do a local 5K run in my town) to work out and attempt to get in a healthier weight range.
I used to love my body, wear fitting clothes that hugged my curves in all the right ways and showed off every inch of this sexy body God and mama’s good cooking blessed me with.(LOL)
But then I got to a point that I’d cry myself to sleep because I absolutely hated my body, I was disgusted with my 5’4 370 lb body…
And I had no idea how I was going to get past this “phase”…
I’m still not sure how I did it, and I can’t say that I’m completely “back to normal” or whatever that is.. But I can say that I can see the beauty in my body.
And that’s mostly with the help of you, your Facebook page, and some of the pages that you have shared.
You post pics of big beautiful women glowing because they are absolutely comfortable and HAPPY in their skin.
You are an inspirational person.
You help people so much without even knowing that you have.
I just want to say thank you… and hopefully soon I will be able to afford a gorgeous bustier from your store. Lol
Again, thank you for being such an inspirational person in my life. I may have never seen you in person but I feel like I know you.!
Thank you, and have a fabulous day!
Your Fan, (I took her name out, but let’s just call her Ms. Oklahoma.)
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And my reply to her:
awww you are so sweet! Thanks so much. Can I share this as a blog if I take your name out? I am so happy you are figuring out how beautiful you are! Isn’t it amazing how much pleasure your curvy body is capable of!
Sincerely, Chrystal Bougon Curvy Girl Owner and Resident Curvy Girl