Love Letter to an Internet Bully

Dear Internet Bullies, Fat Shamers, Concern Trolls,Thumb Thugs.

curvy-girl-lingerieEveryone has at least one story about being bullied or shamed once in their lifetime. For some of us it happened in grade school. Others in high school. For some of us, our families bullied us about our weight or our sexuality. For some of us, we have been bullied online by anonymous internet bullies or concern trolls. Others of us have been bullied on the playground or in a sports arena. Some of us get bullied at work. Everyone can relate to being bullied or shamed. And, those of you who know me as the owner of Curvy Girl Lingerie, you may be very familiar with the very public bullying I have been a part of since I opened my plus size lingerie store in Oct. 2012. Who knew people had so much free time to be so concerned about my health and the health and happiness of all of the beautiful fat, curvy, thick and plush women we have helped in the 17 months we have been open. Some of them have been very vocal and most of the others have been anonymous shamers and cyber bullies hiding behind anonymous profiles and faceless emoticons.

Jen Mclellan of and and I want to invite you to join us in writing a LOVE LETTER to your bully. Stand up to your bully Continue reading


Curvy Girl Lingerie Trends for 2014

fat-girl-lingerieA blog I wrote for the Huffington Post. It’s got a sexy slide show with some of the pictures of the new lingerie we are carrying at the store and on our online store.

Sexy Lingerie Trends for 2014 Article Here

I am excited to be writing a blog for the Huffington Post all about Curvy Girl Lingerie, trends, styles, and the Curvy Girl world!


This is my first blog and we got 11 comments. If you have any comments, please add them to the Huff Po article. That would be so awesome!

Sincerely, Chrystal Bougon

Owner and Resident Curvy Girl


Be a Dear, Donate a Brassiere – donate your bras at Curvy Girl Lingerie

Donate your gently worn bras.

Donate your gently worn bras.

Ok, ladies, I know you have some gently worn bras laying around.  In your drawers, hanging in your closets and maybe even some of them still have the tags on them. Curvy women are notoriously bad at keeping outrbras and foundations up to date.  If you have any extra bras you would like to donate, please stop by the store between now and Feb. 20th.

We will ship them all to  in Mountain View on the 21st of February.

I grabbed this information from their Facebook page. If you are not in the San Jose are and have some bras you would like to donate, you can mail them to our store or you can mail them directly to Be a Dear’s PO Box info I included here for you. (And, we are accepting all bras… big or small. Pretty or sporty. Gently worn or new.)

I love having a brick and mortar for this very reason! We have a fun spot to create community and do some good. You ladies and gents are always so super generous. I am Continue reading