Why is it so far fetched to believe that a fat person might just be happy in the shell they inhabit? Why do so many people assume I am in a holding pattern until I lose my “excess” weight?

Why is it so far fetched to believe that a fat person might just be happy in the shell they inhabit? Why do so many people assume I am in a holding pattern until I lose my “excess” weight?
We’re having a raffle and it’s open to our U.S. and International Customers. We love to give this bustier away because our customers LOVE IT! It’s available in 6 colors and it’s also available in so many sizes.
Yes, I know. “50 Shades of Grey” is fraught with consent issues and some really bad grammar. The writing sucks and started out as Fan Lit. But, there are some things all couples could learn from the kinky trilogy.
Since I opened my plus size lingerie boutique in Oct. 2012, I have been contacted several times by various parties to create a Curvy Girl Lingerie T.V. Show. Several networks and casting directors have reached out to us to create a Curvy Girl Lingerie show for them.
Here is where this SELFIE Giveaway will be held : Curvy Girl Shopping Spree Link
DROP A SELFIE and win a $125 Curvy Girl Lingerie Shopping Spree. 1 Lucky Winner will be drawn and announced PUBLICLY on Jan 14th that way we will have time to ship you your free lingerie in time for Valentine’s Day on Feb.